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Friday, 9 February 2018

CONGRATS!!! Olamide Baddo Signed A New Endorsement Deal, Exactly A Week After Mother’s Death (Photos)

February 09, 2018 0

If God don dey your back, E don dey be that Ooo!

The Science Student prefect, Olamide has bagged another endorsement deal from Play Nigeria.

The YBNL boss who mourned the death of his mum on the 30th of January and came back to the game after 4 days of being laylow when he unveiled his new hairdo via his Instagram page.

He today shared a picture of his Instagram page with the caption;

New deal @play_nigeria for the people !!! Update !!! @ikemefuna1

Congratulations to Baddo!!!

See photo below:-



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#BBNaija: ’45 Million Is Not Important To Me, I Can Make It In A Week’- Cee-c Brags (See Video)

February 09, 2018 0
Big brother housemates, Cynthia Nwadiora, AKA Cee- C, has said she can make N45 million in a week.

Cee-C , in a conversation with fellow housemate, BamBam boasted that the grand prize N45m is not important to her as she can make such amount in a week.

She said what she becomes at the end of the reality show is more important than the prize.

Cee- C said, ”The money is not important to me, it is who I become after the show.”

”If today , tomoro I leave this place and i dnot walk away with the N45m i know i will make more than the money.

”I mean what is N45m , I swear to God I can make that money in a week if I want to.”

Recall that that Ex housemate, T-boss had last year come under intense criticisms by followers of the programme for saying if she wins she will spend the N25m in a week

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Sunday, 4 February 2018

Thank You!! Olamide is Grateful For Your Prayers As He Mourns Mum

February 04, 2018 0

The “Science student” singer took to Twitter to thank his fans for their prayers during this hard time.

Olamide may be in mourning but he wants you to know that he appreciates your prayers and well wishes.

The “Science student” singer took to Twitter to thank his fans for their prayers during this hard time.

He tweeted simply, “Thanks to everyone for your prayers“.
As earlier reported, Olamide lost his mum on the same day his son, Batifeori Maximiliano Adedeji, turned three-years-old.

May Mama continue to Rest in Peace 🙏
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BREAKING NEWS! Tears As Olamide Loses Mum On Son’s Birthday

February 04, 2018 0

Naijaloaded.com.ng has confirmed that popular rapper in Nigeria Olamide has lost his mother today.

The YBNL CEO earlier celebrated his son, Batifeori Maximiliano Adedeji third birthday today, January 30th 2018.

However in a subsequent post some hours later, he revealed the tragic news of his mum’s demise with a black post via his Instagram handle.

He wrote:- Orisa bi iya o si which means “No Idol like Mother” in English.

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We will continue to update as we get more information..



What A Terrible Loss – We pray the Good lord console Olamide and give him the strength to move on 🙏

Rest In Peace Ma 😣 
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Davido’s Cousin Shares Beautiful New Photos, What Do You Think?

February 04, 2018 0

Nike is the beautiful daughter of Senator Ademola Adeleke ‘the dancing senator’ and also the cousin to Nigerian music star Davido.

Nike shared the hot new photos on Instagram. Nike wore a matching black outfit as she posed for the photos beside a sports car.
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Who Rocked It Better? Davido & Cardi B Competes, Show Off Their N35.5m Watch (Photo)

February 04, 2018 1
DMW Boss Davido And American Artiste Cardi B Competes As Duo Rocks The Same Type Of Gold Encrypted Philippe Patek Watch Worth $97,000. N35,500,000 million

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Who do you think rocked it better?
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Wow!! See Photo Of Genevieve Nnaji Looking Like A Sex Doll

February 04, 2018 0
Nollywood actress, Genevieve Nnaji shared this new photo on her Instagram page, and it shows an unusual slender Gene.
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Look dope right?

Mama just looking more beautiful everyday
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Check Out The Top 5 Music That Shook The Whole Of Nigeria (Number 3 Was A Major Hit)

February 04, 2018 0

The release of hit songs that makes music fans stay awake is not a new thing in Nigeria.

As a matter of fact, we have been enjoying many hit singles before the introduction of new generation artistes like Wizkid, Davido and sorts.

There have been major hit singles from the onset that made us feel on top of the world back in the days and below are the top 5 in no particular order:

1. Fall In Love By D’banj: The koko master himself, was apparently the biggest musician from Nigeria in those days. His songs is always at the top of every chart and in recent time one of the first artistes to feature a foreign artiste in the country.

Fall in love was a song even the deaf danced to, a love song that is palatable to the ears of old and young people of both genders. The song further got attention when the visuals came out which featured the top Nigerian actress “Genevieve” which sparked dating rumor between them as they were caught kissing in the video of the hit single.

2. Kerewa By Zule Zoo: Many of you would still be sucking mama’s breast during the time of Zule Zoo. It made a lot of wave in the country, even though the type of lyrics contained in the track would be likened to the type of songs the NBC would ban if it was sang in this modern day.

We are not sure of where they are currently, but we are glad they are part of the history in Nigerian music industry.

3. Yahooze By Olu Maintain: Yahoo! Oh Oh, was like a national anthem in the country then, arguably the song of the century in the nation. The song which came with the famous dancing move of moving hands upward made it to everybody’s playlist.

Olu Maintain caught the attention of people of all ages in Nigeria and whoever that didn’t listen to the song was undoubtedly living under the rock.

Lest I forget, when the Super Falcons of Nigeria won the 2007 U-17 world cup competition. Olu maintain is the artiste invited by Yar’adua the then president of Nigeria to perform for the team at the welcome party in Abuja. This shows the kind of gravity the song had at the period.

4. African Queen By 2face: 2baba is considered one of the living legends because in the industry because of this track that catapulted his career even to the outer world.

The song is indeed evergreen that even if played now. It would still fit into the recent time type of music people would love to listen to. African queen was/is a hit and 2baba is a legend. No doubt about that.

5. Mr Lecturer: By Eedris Abdulkareem: Eedris was African 50 cent. He is rugged and one of the very minute musicians who can sing to condemn the government even to the face of the government officials.

Mr Lecturer is a dramatic song that explains what our young ladies face in higher institutions from lecturers and it is one of the song Nigerian loved so well.

Eedris is part of the singers in Nigeria we can call a legend and no bigger music was done by him other than Mr Lecturer.

There are many hit singles that rocked the music phase of Nigeria but the aforementioned are just some of them. Which one do you enjoy most out of the songs? Or which other song should make the list.

Drop your opinion in the comment box.
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Ghen Ghen! This Popular Nollywood Actress Vows To Buy Male $ex Doll For Val

February 04, 2018 0

Ahead of celebration of this year’s Valentine Day, which comes up on the 14th of February, Nollywood diva, Tracy Daniels has opened up on how she intends to make the special day a memorable one for herself.

She plans to buy a sex doll on that special day for herself. The light-skinned diva, who was once married to a wealthy Indian expatriate, said the item will be a special gift to herself on the day set aside to celebrate lovers across the world.

This, she explained is to enable her ascertain the reality of the sex doll. Anita Joseph, Tracy & Treasure Daniels Tracy made this startling revelation while in a chat. She said:

“I want to match the duties of a sex doll with that of one’s partner and see if one is getting more or exact same service because to me love affair goes beyond sex.”

The Nollywood actress, however, challenged the opposite sex to do for their partners what a sex doll cannot do for them. She maintained that a woman will be able to go the extra mile for you as a man and that is what you cannot expect a sex doll to do.
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Boosty Moves! Watch Video Of A Braless Nigerian Lady Dancing At A Party

February 04, 2018 0

Which kind ladies we get this days in Nigeria? The lady pictured in this post went braless to a Nigerian party and she didn’t seem to care as she danced away happily.

She is just shaking and her boobs were all dangling without directions. What is wrong with ladies this days? Morality have really taken a back seat in our society all for the sake of modernity.

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Thursday, 1 February 2018

6 places to find your future girlfriend (and HOW to approach her)

February 01, 2018 0
I’d be happy to give you some tips. I wish I could offer you a fool-proof pick up line but in my opinion, it doesn’t exist. I find that a more authentic approach is the way to go. My dad says that the best way to spark a conversation is to introduce yourself. Okay. That’s authentic enough but WHERE DO YOU GO FROM THERE?!

Nowhere. You’re stuck.

Instead, look to your mutual surroundings and ask her opinion on something. If you’re with a friend ask her if she could settle a debate you are having. She doesn’t know you but everyone has an opinion and if you give her a chance to express hers AND you treat it with respect, well, that’s a great first impression!

Once you approach, find common ground, and get her to open up to you, it’s time for you to FOLLOW THROUGH. A great conversation isn’t enough to get you a girlfriend; you have to create an excuse for future connection. So for each location and approach strategy, I’m also going to give you a script for how to FOLLOW THROUGH!


Tempting but NO...

A Club or Bar: Just don’t. A woman’s defenses are up at a bar scene or party. It might be easier for you to get up the courage to talk to a girl when it’s made out of liquid but it’s not conducive to an authentic connection. Loud music, sexy clothes, and alcohol mean surface connections and games.

A Gym: Don’t. Some girls may feel differently but there is no way I want to be picked up when I’m sweaty and stinky. There is already such an obvious connection to sex: tight spandex, sweating, breathing heavy, endorphins, that it just seems skeevy when a guy approaches. Women at the gym tend to be on guard.


Approach her where she is more relaxed and receptive...


1. A Park: 


Scenario One: Do you have a dog? If you do, there is your in. Even if you are babysitting your friend’s dog, it’s cool. Just say, “Hi. Oh my goodness your puppy is cute. This is Milo. I’m babysitting him for a friend.” People who have dogs are immediately part of a community, she will feel safe to open up to you. That’s when you can follow up with, “My name is…” If you don’t have a dog feel free to approach a girl who has one and say hi to her pup. If that dog starts to wag its tail, you’re in.

Scenario Two: Don’t like dogs? That’s okay. Bring a Frisbee. Go up to a cute girl and say, “Hey, my friend ditched me for his girlfriend, you want to toss a Frisbee around?” It will be fun, charming and spontaneous. When she says yes, that’s when you can introduce yourself. Also, don’t show off. Don’t go too far from her and don’t criticize her technique. If she says, “Oh no. I suck.” That’s when you can offer some helpful advice.

Follow through: “This was fun. If you ever want to do this again or even go for a cup of coffee, here’s my number. Text me and I’ll call you. It would be great to see you again.”

(When you give a girl your number it releases her from needing to decide on you THAT minute. You’re not asking her for anything. Unfortunately, when a man gives a woman his number she can feel pressured to call him and be the pursuer. She doesn’t like this either. So the charming middle ground is to invite her to text you and let her know that THAT will be your cue to call her and pursue her. Seriously…this is brilliant.)


2. A Coffee Shop:


When I was single, I used to purposefully do my school work at a coffee shop in order to put myself out there in case a cute boy wanted to talk to me. I can’t think I’m alone in doing this. Approach her and ask, “May I share your table?” If she says yes, sit down and read your book or work on your laptop. You can also ask her, “Is this is a good place to study? This is my first time here.” Or “What is the best drink on the menu here? What do you recommend?” Then introduce yourself.

A nice move is if she finishes her beverage you can ask if she’d like another and then order it for her and pick up the tab. How much is a cup of coffee really? You can afford the gesture. Plus it will really impress her.

Follow through: “It was really nice chatting with you. Here’s my number if you ever want to meet for coffee on purpose sometime. Text me and I’ll call you.”

3. A Museum or Art Show:

This is easy. Just ask, “What do you think of this piece?” Exchange a few lines (nothing too pretentious, be honest) and then introduce yourself. Maybe continue the conversation to the next piece. Or maybe if you know some stuff walk up to a girl checking out a piece and say, “I love this time period. They…blah blah blah (fun fact).”

Just don’t blah blah blah for too long or you might lose her!

Follow through: “Well that was fun. I normally have to drag my friends to these things so it was nice to hang with someone who actually wants to be here. You know there’s a new exhibit happening over at the __________, I’d love to take you if you’d like to join me. Think about it. Here’s my number. Text me and I’ll call you.”



4. A Hardware Store: 


This is a great place to pick up the ladies. I’m not saying all women get overwhelmed the minute they walk into home depot but I know a lot of us do. Women have questions and it’s almost impossible to get any help there so if you see a woman wandering around who looks like she’s in need of help or advice, swoop in. Many women are out of their element at a hardware store and would appreciate a friendly helping hand. You can ask about her project, what she needs help on, introduce yourself and even offer to help her with the project.

There's nothin sexier than a man with his tools! 

Follow through: “Sounds like a cool project. I’m happy to help. Here’s my number. You can text me any time for advice or if you need a hand. It was nice meeting you. Hopefully we’ll talk soon.”


5. A Grocery Store: 


Here's the secret most men don't know: you don’t actually have to know anything about cooking to pick up a girl in a grocery store.

Hang around the produce section and when you see a girl you like say something like, “Hey, I see your getting eggplant (or whatever). I promised my mom/sister/aunt I’d make her dinner tonight and I know she’s trying to eat healthy. I’m hopeless with this stuff. Can I ask you what you're planning for that eggplant? Like how to cook it?”

Now you’ve opened her up. You’re like a lost puppy and her guard is totally down. She can give you advice on the eggplant and even some advice on the whole meal. Healthy cooking is very trendy right now (as it should be!) and she is probably into it too. In addition, how cute are you for making your mom dinner? Once you’ve got her talking, you can introduce yourself. 

Follow through: “Wow. Thank you so much. This was a lot of help. I’m going to take your advice and try my best. Hey, what’s your number? I want to update you on how it goes. If all goes well, my mom will probably want to thank you too.”


6. Volunteering: 


This is a great environment to connect authentically with women. You are both working for a cause outside of yourself. This is nice because it shows you are selfless and generous which is extremely attractive. But also it’s nice to have the attention elsewhere because her guard will be down. The easiest in is the most obvious, “So how did you get involved with this program?” After a conversation is sparked, you can introduce yourself.

Follow through: “So, next week same time? I love working with this organization but today, hanging with you, was my favorite. Here’s my number. Text me when you’re planning on volunteering again or even if you just want to get some ice cream.”

In general, the key is to not come on strong and in fact appear like you are not coming on at all. You are merely asking her opinion on something. You acknowledge that opinion as something of value and you are putting her in a spotlight. She feels honored, special, and safe. Only when she is at ease with you, laughing and perhaps playing with her hair, should you begin to show interest and either give her your number (“text me and I’ll call you”) or if things look really great ask her out to get some ice-cream or coffee.

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14 Signs You've Found Your Work Wife

February 01, 2018 0
1. You both remember EXACTLY when you went from one friendly colleague to another. One day you greeted you uneasily in the bathroom, the next day you realized that you had the same taste as Netflix and therefore that the seed was planted.

2. Eating lunch together is usually your favorite part of the day. The day you find a buddy on your desk every day instead of the sadness of lunch is the day your life really started.

3. Drinking coffee is a ritual you do not want to skip. You need your dose of Caffeine 16h and your BFF work to keep you in the Starbucks line. When the day comes to an end, you must have everything for 1000%.

4. You stick to happy times like glue. You know that the whole purpose is to mess up and make new friends, but you already have your friend and you want to catch up with him. So, when someone asks you, you'll both be sitting in a corner, ignoring everything vaguely.


5. You know that "let's take this to the text" means some serious members will fall. There are only a few incidents of bullshit work that can not be pronounced aloud, but YOU MUST SPEAK AS SOON AS YOU CAN.

6. They exchange special and subtle looks that nobody else sees. If you can see your friend who gets it, if your other colleague is aggressive, it means that you are leading your way through the day.

7. You give tips to improve your work. You have thought about ways to solve problems and always feel that you are in a safe place.

8. The most stressful days are so much easier when they are nearby. Other people may not realize that you have had successive meetings and have not yet eaten, but your working wife will bring you a sandwich in no time.

9. They sent ridiculous things at the worst of times. Of course they send you a meme that makes you laugh just before you hit your boss.

10. You are happy just because you are there. Did you have a bad weekend where you have to stop thinking about it? Seeing your wife at work on Monday and learning to literally talk about something else will heal you.


11. You understand the eternal misfortune of not having a place where you can talk privately ~. Of course, the day your private life is in ruins and you need a quick scream with your friend when all the conference rooms are booked.

12. Working without them is much less good. Even if you like your job, having one of your favorite people for a day is not so bad, and you can not wait to return to make your workday feel full again.

13. They would have super mixed feelings if they were going for another job. Part of you would be very happy to continue and get a promotion / raise / work that will fill you up, but also: WTF, NOOOO, WHAT TO DO NOW ???

14. You graduated from work, and it's the best. You live for weekend brunch where you can spend all the time together.

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Friday, 26 January 2018

10 Awesome Ways To Keep Your Man or Woman In Love With You Forever

January 26, 2018 0

10 Awesome Ways To Keep Your Man or Woman In Love With You Forever 

Sustaining a relationship is something most couples find hard to do. There are many factors involved in ensuring a relationship lasts for ever. Love shouldn't stop blooming even when difficulties and hurdles bombard your life. In this article, we focus on what women can do to make a relationship happy and successful. In the context of women, we look at some awesome ways to keep your man in love with you. These are proven ways to sustain a relationship and make your man feel excited and contented. It is important for every woman to incorporate these points in order to keep her partner happy and excited.

Let us go ahead and look at these 10 awesome ways to make your man happy and contented in the relationship. Here are the 10 ways to keep your man happy forever.

Be Supportive And Flexible As a woman or man, to support your man forms an essential part of cherishing your relationship with him. Always make sure you are supportive of your man's actions i.e. his efforts to enhance his career prospects, or anything for that matter. This is one of the most crucial characteristics of a strong woman.

Compliment Him\her  Compliment him often. Complimenting each other is an extremely important part of a healthy relationship.

Give Him\her His/her Space You need your space sometimes. When he wants his space at times, make sure you allow him that. Spending time alone will serve the prospects of a stronger bond as time progresses.

Allow Him\her To Win Sometimes This can be fun more than anything else. Allow your man to win sometimes. Let him have the last laugh. Little will he know you allowed that intentionally.

Be Possessive ( Not Too Much Though) Being possessive is important. It makes him feel important and loved. But don't overdo it. It spoils things and creates undesirable misunderstandings

Respect His Folks
Respecting his folks will help build trust and enhance the bond between you and your partner. Moreover, with your actions, treating his folks with respect will prompt him to do the same.

Take Responsibility For The House
It is important to divide responsibility but at the same time, as a woman, you must take responsibility for certain things at home. For instance, helping him balance things out as far as work and personal life is concerned will definitely strengthen the bond you share with your man.

Give In To Him\her fantasies In The Bedroom
This is again a decisive factor that works to keep your man happy and contented. A characteristic of a passionate woman is to give into her man's desires in the bedroom.

Allow Him\her The Discretion To Make Decisions
Give him the discretion to take decisions. This will allow him to feel important and remind of his responsibility. As a woman, you will unfailingly benefit from a man who knowns his responsibilities well.

Apologize When You Are Wrong
Always tender an apology when you are fault. Do not keep him in the dark, for it screws things up quite miserably.
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The secrets I discovered were like a hail storm of wisdom and knowledge. I finally felt like I had hope.

January 26, 2018 0

The secrets I discovered were like a hail storm of wisdom and knowledge. I finally felt like I had hope.

The information I learned that weekend was like drinking from a fire hose of knowledge. It left me dizzy with all the wonderful possibilities.









Nick was full of amazing information to reveal. In fact, he even exposed covert psychological concepts on topics ranging from:

  • The way to be his #1 priority no
  • The reason behind why a man falls in true love
  • Secrets to making any man chase you
  • What all men want above anything else
  • How to make him grovel to be with you until the end of time
  • The secret to getting by his emotional blocks and reach his heart
  • The truth behind his lack of commitment & how to reverse this and force him to agree to it now
  • What to do if you want his undying devotion
  • Way to make him crave you no matter what (yes, even if he’s pulling away now)
  • How to get inside even the most guarded man’s heart
  • What makes a man see you as his “soulmate”
  • This seminar was beyond spectacular and made me realize how many exciting things I could now do! Since I went to it here are a few of the “life changes” (aka dreams that have somehow become reality):


1. I’m actually in a healthy relationship and it’s red-hot and he does little romantic things constantly

2. He brought me chocolates last week out of the blue

3. When I speak, he’s actually emotionally present and listens to me & my needs are fulfilled


4. I actually truly feel loved, adored and cared for

Honestly… my love life transformed. Which might make you ask: then why are you writing this right now? Because I know the pain of what it feels like to deal with what I dealt with…

Because something amazing occurred and I really want you to be aware of it.

Nick is an amazing, truly sweet man who jumps with excitement any time he can help. He leads a busy life and travels internationally to help heal the hearts of women from all races, nationalities, all ages… He has literally helped THOUSANDS of women achieve the true love they desperately want and deserve.

Nick has made a kind of strange video I feel all women need to watch right now. It was inspired by the event I went to and contains a lot of the same stuff I discovered. So if you’re a woman who isn’t in the amazing relationship you have always wanted you owe it to yourself to watch this now.
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The Secret You Need To Know About Men

January 26, 2018 0

The Secret You Need To Know About Men



Who is Nick? Well, he’s been a love expert and researched everything about relationships, love and what makes a man tick as if he is a surgeon dissecting a medical condition.

And on that fateful day he revealed his most significant revelation about men:


“The sad truth is when you go out of your way to do things to make him happy… and are in a really good mood, happy, nice, on his “team,” yet also sprinkle in enough of the chase to make sure he doesn’t get too comfortable and think he has you… this is when he vanishes out of nowhere or breaks up with you for no reason!”

Women are wired to want to be sweet motherly figures who are kind and caring. But being this way alone is not going to make a man truly fall in love. You need to realize there’s an “intangible” that a guy has to have a specific kind of “emotional experience” to actually go out of his way to chase you, commit to you and be obsessed with you.

If you are missing this special “component,” and he gets the impression that you’re pressuring him into making things official… his walls and male radar go up fast and he won’t be aware of it but his subconscious will feel that you’re definitely not his “soul mate.”

This will make him try to establish independence and liberate himself from you and he certainly will not be emotionally open or try to establish a deeper bond.

Even worse, his subconscious and instincts will tell him that he’s constantly under the microscope and he will feel he is suffocating.

What does he do when he feels this? Well, he becomes distant, confusing and makes sure he is never emotionally present. This murders any short at love and the budding relationship is stopped before it starts.

Nick continued, “This is the reason behind why when you look for love and are craving it, you’re accidentally killing your chances with him and you always end up in the same cycle of trying to capture his attention and love but never really having it. Or if you do end up dating him and in an official relationship you always feel that you like him more and that he’s not completely in it.”

On the flip side, when a man views you as his “soul mate,” everything you do or say makes you more amazing in his eyes. Rather than view you as a freedom snatcher, a crazy woman trying to “force him into a relationship” he views you as “the one.” A woman he cannot imagine life without.
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The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman

January 26, 2018 0

The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman


Here’s how I made the man of my dreams addicted to me and eagerly DEVOTE himself to me…

After years of heartache, I finally figured out what makes a man feel a special kind of love and desire so powerful he chases me and must commit to me using an unusual trick.
My name is Rebecca and I live in the United States. I’m not the youngest or prettiest woman around and when it came to my dating life I was usually the single one.

When I was dating a man and thought I had great connection with him – he quickly seemed to lose interest, became emotionally cold and then would disappear. That was me.

I once was dating a man who broke it off with me because he said I was “overly clingy.” To be honest I was scared he would leave me and that’s what he did.

I read as much”dating and relationship advice” as I could. I needed to know what men wanted. All I discovered was the same old thing you’ve probably heard before like: stop being desperate, always get dressed and look pretty, cook him delicious meals, prove what an amazing wife/girlfriend you could be, and then, of course… be a “freak” in the bedroom while composed and normal in public…

I tried hard, I really did and the more I tried the more desperate and insecure I felt.


It seemed to me that men only wanted pretty, skinny girls or the super flirtatious type of woman. Neither of those describes me so I just assumed I would spend my life alone or settle for than less than I deserve.

It felt like the kind of woman men ended up going out with were bubbly, outgoing,super thin and pretty. Well, unfortunately this was the opposite of me. I struggled with my weight, never felt attractive or like men noticed me.

In fact, I felt totally invisible—simply unnoticed by the men I wanted.

I also used to remember how I watched women who weren’t even that pretty or interesting get the most desirable, coveted after men literally obsessed with them. And the worst part? Some of these women were even manipulative and mean! And amazing men bent over backwards to shower these horrible and even mean women with constant attention, love and adoration. Meanwhile, I would go out of my way to be nice, hit it off with a guy at first but then things would start falling apart quite fast. The man would start getting really distant, difficult and confusing….

And end up abandoning me, “ghosting” and not pursuing an official relationship with me because they just weren’t interested.

I honestly thought that all I was good for was to be a “meantime fling” not an actual “girlfriend.” I basically decided dating and I did not get along and that the entire idea of it was pointless.

…Until one morning of looking for advice on the internet changed it all for me.

It was Sunday morning and I felt scared…

So as usual I started going out with a guy I was very happy and hopeful about… this was actually promising and I thought it was the “one” I’d been searching for and things would go right this time.

But sadly, as usual, after we were dating for a little bit… I noticed those fatal warning signals that he was becoming distant… and I was so scared he would leave me.

I frantically looked up what I could do to fix the situation and felt I had to find an “expert.”

An I mean someone who really “knew” what it was that men secretly craved but could never tell women. I needed someone who knew what works every time and could expose the secrets about what really makes a man permanently interested.

And that is when I stumbled upon Nick Bastion. He was promising that I would discover exactly what all men secretly crave and claimed he was going to reveal some shockingly effective, special information on exactly what men truly desire…
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The 5 Steps To Keep A Man In Love With You Forever

January 26, 2018 0

Am I saying true love is impossible? Far from it.


If you put two people together who are right for each other then love will blossom. It’s all about creating the best environment for love to grow between you.

So how do you do that?

In other words:

How Do You Keep Him In Love?
Here’s what to do.

I’m going to give you the 5 most important ways to not only grow love in a relationship, but keep it going strong through all obstacles.

Ready?

1. Make Sure You’re Compatible With Each Other


Mutual compatibility is the #1 most important factor in whether love will blossom, and whether a relationship will go the distance.

If you’re not compatible with each other, the relationship isn’t going to last. If you are compatible, things will work between you even when times are tough and things get hard.


So that begs the question: how do you find out whether you’re compatible with each other?

In order to do that, all you have to do is ask yourself a couple of simple questions, and answer them honestly.


If you’re not honest with yourself when you answer these questions then it’s not going to work. If you’re not sure, trust your initial gut reaction.

The first question is: is it easy to be around each other?

Great relationships aren’t meant to be hard, they’re meant to be easy. It should feel good to be around him – just like it should feel good for him to be around you.

If it feels good when you’re with each other and it’s easy to be with each other, then you’re compatible.

The second question is: do you fight all the time, or do you generally not fight?

All relationships have fights. It’s unavoidable when you put two people together and they have to compromise moving forward.


But the difference between a great relationship and one that’s not going to last is how you fight.


When you fight, do you tear each other down and attack each other, or do you get to the bottom of what you’re fighting about?

Great, compatible couples don’t try to hurt each other while they’re fighting – they try to resolve whatever they’re fighting about so that they can stop fighting.

Couples that aren’t compatible will get mean during fights – they’ll keep a fight going just to get the last word in or to “get the other person back” for something they said.

Compatible couples will always look to finish a fight quickly, and that’s what makes their relationships strong enough to go the distance.

Without compatibility, no relationship can last. The infatuation that you feel for each other at the beginning of the relationship will eventually fade, and you’ll wind up falling apart.

So the first step in finding love that lasts is to make sure you’re compatible.

2. Be Someone That He Can Confide In


In order for him to build a deep bond with you that lasts, he has to feel like he can tell you anything.

Even things that you might not want to hear.


The most important aspect to building that bond is making him feel safe when he tells you things. That means not judging him for telling you his truth about something, and it means no passive-aggressiveness or punishing him if he tells you something you don’t want to hear.

To clarify: I don’t mean that you can’t get upset at him if he says something insensitive or ugly to you. By all means, if he hurts your feelings or does something that upset you – tell him!

But the key word in that sentence is tell him. Don’t get upset at him and try to hurt him because he hurt you, and don’t tell him everything is ‘fine’ when really you’re seething inside.


Be honest with him, and give him the space to be honest with you.

People are only dishonest when they don’t feel comfortable telling someone the truth. If you show him that he can be comfortable telling you the truth even if it’s something you don’t want to hear, he’s going to be honest with you all the time.

When he feels totally safe telling you anything he needs to, it creates a deep bond between you that is very difficult to break. It’s one of the most important building blocks towards deep, abiding love that lasts.

3. Make Sure You’re Speaking The Same ‘Love Language’



Dr. Gary Chapman pioneered a way of thinking about communication in relationships that revolutionized the way that many people look at love.

I’m not going to go through everything he’s written about, but I will give you a summary: people show love and receive love differently. If he expects to receive love in a different way than you like to show it, then he might feel like he’s not receiving any love from you.


This is a fundamental understanding – because when you realize that people like to recognize and receive love in different ways, it can show you the root of problems you might have been having in your relationships.

The other key understanding is that people like to receive love in the same way that they like to show love.

That means that if he likes to show you love by giving you thoughtful gifts, he also likes to receive love by receiving thoughtful gifts.

If you try to show him love with kind words, it won’t be nearly as meaningful to him as it would be if you gave him a thoughtful gift – because you wouldn’t be speaking his love language.

So try to show him love the same way that he likes to show you love – and he will feel much more loved and appreciated by you. That will kindle and strengthen his love for you in turn.

4. Match His Level Of Commitment To You 


Don’t Chase After His Love
Many, many women make the mistake of thinking that if they just act like they’re in a serious committed relationship with a guy, he’ll wake up and want to be in a serious committed relationship with them.

The truth is, this is actually the exact opposite of how it works, and ends in heartbreak almost every time.

Here’s how guys really work: he’s not going to feel inspired to ‘lock you down’ and fall deeply in love with you unless you inspire him.



The way to inspire him to do that isn’t to devote yourself to him and act as if you’re already in a committed relationship – it’s to show him you’re worth it… that you’re a catch that any man would be lucky to have, and that he has to ‘win’ you if he wants you.

So how do you do that? Simple: you match his commitment level in the relationship.

If he’s not committing himself to you, then you shouldn’t commit yourself to him. If you commit to him without a commitment from him, it shows him that he doesn’t have to try hard in order to have your love.

He doesn’t have to show you love, he doesn’t have to commit to you, he doesn’t have to put in the effort – you’re already committing and devoting yourself to him. You’re showing him that you’re going to be there for him no matter what kind of effort he puts in.

So by matching his level of commitment and only committing to him if he commits to you, you save your self-esteem and you force him to step up if he wants you.

If you want him to love you, the best way is for him to have a natural desire to step up and ‘win you’ that comes from within him.

So inspire him by not devoting yourself to him unless he’s explicitly ‘locked you down’ and devoted himself to you. By keeping your self-respect and your independence until he explicitly says he wants a serious committed relationship, you make him work harder to keep you and fall in love with you faster.

5. Have Your Own Fulfilling Life Outside The Relationship



One huge truth about good relationships is that they can’t be everything. They have to be a part of a happy life, not the entire thing.


You both need your own lives that you can enjoy even when you’re not together. Being so wrapped up in each other that you’re the only source for each other’s happiness is a recipe for codependence, drama, and a toxic relationship.

Make sure that you let him have his own life in the same way that you have your own life outside the relationship.

I like to say that a great relationship isn’t the cake – its’ the icing on top of the cake. Your outside life should be the cake, and the relationship is what puts the icing on top and makes everything even better.

Two people should already be happy and satisfied with their lives before they get into a relationship, so that they bring their happiness together and share it with each other. The relationship shouldn’t be your only source of happiness, if it is then that’s a recipe for disaster.


So make sure you live your life outside of him, and that he has the opportunity to live his life outside of you, so that the relationship has room to breathe and love continues to grow and flourish between you.

I hope this article gave you insight into how to keep a man in love with you forever. In case these steps aren’t enough and he’s still pulling away from you, then you need to know exactly what to do in that situation or you risk losing him forever, so pay attention because the next step is vitally important. If you are already interested in a man and you feel he might be losing interest, going cold or pulling away then you need to read this right now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…

The other huge problem that will ruin relationships and leave you heartbroken and alone is this: Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…
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